Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Tuesday musings January 1 2019


                2018 is in the books and 2019 the journey unfolds. For many, 2018 could not be done quicker. Between severe hurricanes, fires, drought, floods, loved ones who have died, endless wars and mass murders, it was a difficult year. 2018 began with a governmental shut-down and ends with a governmental shutdown. Yet, with all of that, there was times of celebrations, joys, births, marriages that caught the world’s attention, an economy that for the most part showed improvement, and for me the beginning of retirement.
                So what does 2019 hold? My answer is IDK. Will this year be a deja vue of last year? Will we continue to see endless wars, extreme climate changes, continued mass murders especially of children, more refugees seeking asylum? IDK! But even with the issues that continue to be with us, there will continue to be hope, peace, love, and joy. When we become discouraged, remember that Jesus God incarnate was born in similar times. He too was homeless, a refugee, a victim of Rome and church. But, he did so for us because he loved us so much that he was willing to lay down his life for each one of us. He said so many times, “Don’t be afraid and don’t let your hearts be troubled.” We can become part of the issues that plague our nation either through acts of omission or acts of commission. Or we can become the body of Christ, hands of doing, feet of going, words of encouraging, to speak of justice that we see and hear.
                When I am discouraged but the world events, I have a choice. I can do nothing. I can stand with those who are hurting, discouraged, the poor and hungry, the children to show them something beyond fear and abuse. This is not a matter of Republicans vs. Democrats, not a matter of conservatives vs. liberals, not a matter of orthodox vs. progressive, it is a matter of Jesus and following what we see in the gospels. To look at the covenant relationship that God has with all his creation. A covenant that we are stewards of doing, to care for creation, to care and love our creator, and to care and love our neighbor.
                Rather than me doing the common resolutions of losing weight (though that is something I need to do or to exercise more again something that I need to do), resolutions that last less than two-three weeks, maybe my resolution is to be more Christ like, to pray more often, to love more not just family and friends, to spend less time worrying and more time doing. To continue to edit social media to remove divisive comments. To fast from negativity in my life. To share with those around me in my community, my church, even in my nation. Let’s see if these might be some resolutions that I can at least work on and maybe make 2019 a better year. Maybe they would make your 2019 a better year and not just be like last year.

Tuesday, December 25, 2018

Tuesday Musing 12/25/2018



Merry Christmas
                I want to wish all that I know a Merry Christmas on this day. I also want to wish everyone Happy Holidays. For you see it is both. It is more than just birth of Christ it also is God so caring that he would come to this world for you and me. And it continues today through the love that was given as a free gift though communities of faith, family and friends. What began at the very creation of the world continues to happen with us today. Love, Joy, Peace or Shalom, and Hope continues to be the story of Christmas for us, no matter what we have done. So we extend our Christmas in the acts we do today emulating our savior whose birth we are celebrating today. BTW, I do not get too excited about saying happy holidays for indeed they are for many people. This is not attacking Christianity. Unfortunately, our behavior as Christians at times are the attack on the, as Pastor Craig Finnestad preached on Christmas Eve, grace and truth of Jesus. My prayer is that today while we spend time with one another wherever that may be, we continue to live out the Christmas message every day throughout the year.
                This is my first Christmas as a retired pastor. I am still trying to figure out this thing called retirement. It has been almost six months and so far, I have not driven Nancy crazy. Nancy and I have joined the Water’s Edge UMC church in Omaha. We are part of life group. We also volunteer for church and some around the community. It is different that I am not busy planning services or feeling obligated to attend church services. This is something freeing about the idea of doing things because we choose to do so.
                I had thought I would be writing about the life of a retired pastor and social worker, but I am still trying to work that out as to what it is. I was asked to preach at Water’s Edge, Nancy and I serve communion, we are leaders of our life group, and I will be doing a wedding in May of 2019. Not quite the schedule I used to have, but still interesting. I have also been doing more gaming, particularly board games and RPG with my family and with my son’s friends. What I am contemplating is doing a Tuesday musing starting today. Thoughts maybe random about what I am experiencing and sharing opinions about life. I will try to not become too political though it is impossible not to note what is happening both in our nation and around the world does not affect our lives today. The next blog entry will be January 1st, 2019. I wonder what lies ahead in this new age of life.
Shalom
Eldon

Wednesday, April 18, 2018

Continuing thoughts


I want to continue to reflect on some of the learnings I have had over the years. This is a continuation of what I started with my first post. If you have not read that, you can catch it either at the Facebook page of Elkhorn Valley or on my blog at reveldon.blogspot.com. I wanted to share three more insight that I have had this month which is post-Easter. You can feel free to add your thoughts either on the Facebook page or my blog. I would be curious if you find the thoughts helpful for you and maybe ideas of how this could be applied to the church. Anyway, here goes.
The one insight which continues to be debated in our society and even in churches is how to respond to violence. Many advocate for the concept of preventative violence to counter the fear of further violence. Sometimes this becomes so heated that we move away from what Jesus says about violence and what Paul says using scripture from the Hebrew scriptures. Jesus in the gospel of Matthew in the Sermon on the Mount chapter 5:38-42 discusses that when one strikes you that you should not retaliate in the same manner. He goes on to say in 5:43-48 to love unconditionally even one’s enemies. Paul using Proverbs 25:21-22 speaks of not returning evil for evil in Romans 12:18-21. “Don’t be defeated by evil but defeat evil with good.” Throughout history violence usually begets violence. We struggle in our own lives as to how to live true to what Jesus and Paul talks about and yet not be anxious or fearful. I am not sure I have the answer. There are several concerns regarding this issue and it is more than 2nd Amendment rights. It is more than gun control or extensive background checks. It is more than mental illness. It is all of these and more about where is the line between individual rights and the rights of society to live without fear of another massacre or to go about peacefully without anxiety.
Another reflection deals with the tension between individual rights and wisdom and the collective rights and wisdom. Many have talked about the issues of individualism and collectivism. Robert Putman wrote in “Bowling Alone,” about the changes that appear to be happening in our society regarding the shift to more individualistic thinking and acting. Perhaps this is not so new as the debate in church has centered on individual salvation versus salvation for a people. Amitai Etzioni wrote a book on “The New Golden Rule: Community and Morality in a Democratic Society.” His focus is on the need for community rather than the focus on individualism. Either extreme of this continuum is problematic. Individualism in the extreme can be if it feels good go ahead and do it thinking. It becomes all about the person regardless of the effect on others. It is self-centered. It can become at the extreme, narcissism. Our disengaged society seems to be present in many areas of church, nation, and the world. The other extreme is the collective. This can lead to group think. One must conform to the group identity. These groups have rigid boundaries and often spend time scapegoating those who are different then they are. These can be cults and extremists. Healthy relationships are somewhere between the extremes where there is a healthy sense of self and caring for others.
The last insight for this time is that there are no failures only learnings. The key to this is learning. So many times, people or churches do the same thing over and over expecting something different to happen. The thought is that this time it will work only to find out that nothing changes. So even though we found ways that it did not work, are we learning? I spend time thinking about what has not worked for me and I have found in my life that I have lost sight of why I am doing what I do. I believe the focus on our lives, the life of the church, and even in our community needs to have a better understanding of the why. Why leads us to what is my and our mission in this time and place. When we can see the why, the vision of what we are doing becomes clearer. When the why and vision are aligned, the how becomes more evident. It seems that at times we want to short cut the work of finding the why and go to the how we are going to do what we want to do. It seems the idea of doing the same thing over and over without the learning what is needed will not make a difference or lead to change. Or we try to do things without reflecting on why we are doing this. it is not a question of doing things just because others are doing this. It is about first spending time processing the why and the how and what will follow.